Part 1

We’ve all been on dates with that girl. She’s cute but not hot, barely feminine or confident. You go out on the first date with her and everything goes well, you make out in public and when you get back to the front of your place all of a sudden she has to go but kisses you some more and says something to make you believe that next time it;s on. But then the next time you guys hangout she switches the script and it’s like you’re with a totally different person. This time she’s distant and cold and barely reciprocating any physical contact. Because of her vibe you think she’s really not that into you, no big deal. Then a few days later she hits you up wondering where you’ve been and what you’ve been up to. She gives a different vibe of wanting to see you and you guys hangout again. This time she’s flirting and hugging you but you may get back to your place and then she switches the vibe again. This kind of switch can happen for as long as you let it. But real men would call her out on her bullshit while she’s with you, call her out on her indecisiveness and sexual game playing. Let her know you aint got time for this shit. Once this gauntlet has been thrown down and she knows there are no more tricks left, you guys bang. And surprise it turns out to be god awful. I mean the worst sex of your life. No movement, no sound, no passion. It hits you that this girl is really bad.

Part 2

Is it no wonder that the longer a girl puts off having sex for no obvious reason the more likely the girl sucks at it. But what I really find interesting is the thought that a certain age deep down inside a girl knows if she’s good at sex or not. If she bangs a guy and he calls her for a second date or even a booty call to try and sleep with her again it’s probably safe to say she’s at least ok at sex. But what if you were a girl and every time you slept with a guy no matter what point of dating him the first or seventh date as soon as you slept with him one time you never heard from him again. At that point you’d have to know that it’s you not them and that your sex is awful. But as a guy learning to pick out the girls who are probably going to suck in bed is the biggest time saving skill a man can have. The biggest obvious sign is that physical switch. The path to sex usually goes along the same simple path for everyone. Flirty touching, maybe dancing, kissing/makeout, oral, then the sex. Now if you start on this path on one date then the next tim you see her you basically have to start all over or she’s distant or non responsive to any flirty touching, that’s a big red flag. Believe it or not I actually date a girl once who didn’t like sex… with anyone. She told me that she’s never really been into sex and basically does it for the guy. I started to wonder how many girls are like this out there. Some would probably argue instead of pumping and dumping a girl like this why not stay with her and teach her how to become better at sex. Again these are just average cute chicks, the fact that they suck in bed takes away from actually wanting to put in energy and be with them in bed. Attractive hot chicks, 8’s and up are more forgivable for not being good in bed, look at them. If I need to explain to you why then you’re obviously not reading enough Roissy.

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I often put her on top of me right off the bat to guarantee she’ll have to do SOME work. I had this experience with a chick I banged in London. After she rode a little, she kind of layed there and took it. Then she flipped over for doggiestyle, but no movement, no sounds. Even during foreplay, she didn’t TOUCH my dick, let alone suck it. The second time I banged her it was even worse. This bitch has three kids, so you assume she would know how to fuck. NOPE.